But couples need sufficient time to themselves to refresh, restart, and revitalize their relationship. If they don’t, the juices stop flowing, their chemistry dissolves, and stress builds until one or both implode.
With tears streaming I told Tim we needed to find just 3 days to take a break together before the reunion. Ever the sensible one, he explained why it was impossible:
- Colorado is so popular for tourists, nothing would be available at this late date.
- We were so busy already, we didn’t have time
- Given how much we’d spent on repairs and preparations, we couldn’t afford it.
- . . . and more I’ve forgotten
9 Dancing allowed.
We love to dance yet rarely do, and we didn’t on either staycation. Maybe next time! The obvious benefits of far less expense and avoiding the travel hassles, to name but a few, are small compared to how heartwarming and fun these experiences have been. Imagine instead of spending most of two days getting to somewhere to relax and have fun, you wake up in your own bed and are instantly on vacation!Staycations played by these rules are the quickest stress-reducer I’ve found. Even it it’s just for one day, give it a try — and enjoy!