“I put the FUN in FUNctional.”
Parenting three young children while running two businesses, I have been known to say this phrase from time-to-time.
It’s funny. It’s true. It’s hard. It’s exhausting!!
Sure, I’m creative and have my moments of fun – but “fun” looks and feels different now than it did a few years ago!
Somewhere between the endless loads of laundry, wiping of tiny noses and bottoms, and balancing #AllTheThings, I’ve had to train my brain and imagination to prioritize fun and play.
It doesn’t always come naturally…even when kids are playing around me all the time!
Most days, I have energy and passion for my work. I feel purpose and connection with the children I’m raising and the families we’re serving in our preschool and childcare programs. I’m able to live out my vision for what we can create at The Makers Place™ and use my imagination to see what’s possible for the present and future.
Then suddenly life gets reactive, instantly zapping my energy, creativity, and imagination.
One of my children gets mad or moody over something insignificant.
I’m changing yet another onesie from an accident.
Bills need to be paid, emails needs to be sent, and the cycle of business continues.
I’m guessing you can relate…
So from one tired mama to another (and to all the rockstar dads reading this now), here’s my best advice for staying connected to your imagination while juggling parenting, work, and life!
Imagination and Your Brain
It’s amazing how complex our brains are and how different life events actually work to re-wire and shape how we think and live. This short video shares more about the neuroscience of imagination and how our brain works to stimulate our imagination. In Mental Synthesis Theory, your pre-frontal cortex neurons activate multiple neurological pathways in your brain to create new possibilities, connecting concepts that may not have been related before.
This is enhanced even more when we have thicker coatings of myelin around our neurons. And if you’re newer to neuroscience (like me), myelin is a fatty, white substance that wraps around the end of many nerve cells and forms an electrically insulating sheath that increases nerve condition speeds, making our brains work even faster. When we don’t sleep as much or as deeply, our myelin deteriorates, and our brains may feel sluggish and thoughts may feel fuzzy.
In addition to sleeping more and a lot of other dietary and health-related practices, one of the suggested ways to increase the natural production of myelin in your body is to learn and experience something new!
As busy parents, we may at first think “when do I have to do anything MORE?”
But you likely have these amazing micro-learning opportunities every day when you’re teaching your child something for the first time and re-learning it yourself.
Stop to smell a flower while out for a spring walk.
Name the colors you see around you to help your young children learn.
Learn common words or phrases in a new language.
Make learning a family activity by reading book or watching educational shows together.
Take up a new hobby or activity that also gives you some personal time.
Simply, make time to welcome more awe and wonder in your everyday experiences.
Staying Connected to Your Imagination
Ready to put all of this into practice, but need some inspiration?
Here are four fresh strategies for accessing your imagination:
Stop Judging
So often we get STUCK comparing ourselves to what we used to feel like and how much creativity and imagination we had pre-kids. Neurologically, your brain is now wired differently (more on this below!). You literally think differently so you can’t expect things to look and feel the same. Make peace with this, or at least accept it as true, and move forward.
Capture Magic
Everyone has fleeting moments of magic. Those times when we feel particularly inspired and motivated. As much and as often as you can, harness these special times and do something with your imagination. Even if it’s jotting an inspired idea down on a napkin, you’re capturing the seeds of creativity that you can plant later.
Play Along
When you’re tired and feel anything but creative, let your children lead the way. Allow their limitless imaginations to surprise and motivate you. Play along with their sense of wonder and excitement for life, even if it seems silly or pointless. See what it teaches you and notice how much they enjoy playing together.
Claim Time
Yes, it sounds counter-intuitive, but we must actually set aside dedicated time to use our imaginations when the rest of life is going at warp speed. Whether it’s setting up a standing weekly appointment with yourself (I personally like marking this as “creative exploration” on my calendar!) or carving out a longer period of time on a monthly or quarterly basis, make sure to claim time to access your imagination and see what you can create as a result!
Here’s the bottom line with imagination: While it may come naturally, it doesn’t always.
So be kind to yourself, seek out opportunities to learn and play, and allow your interests and passions to activate your imagination. And if you’re feeling really stuck and uncreative, find a friend (and a cuppa coffee) and learn something new together. Rather than getting stuck together in the bottomless pit of venting about how hard life is now, do something to stimulate your brain and enrich your life, even if it’s for a few minutes.
Your imagination will thank you…and you just might feel more energized, too!
Originally published at leadwithintention.com on April 1, 2025
Leslie M. Bosserman, M.Ed., CPCC, is an Executive Coach + Lifestyle Strategist for innovators and creative professionals leading dynamic and diverse teams. After working for a decade in higher education and student development, Leslie launched Lead With Intention® – a boutique coaching and consulting practice that specializes in leadership coaching, customized training, and organizational strategy for clients and their teams around the world. She collaborates with a range of creative professionals from entrepreneurs launching their startups to executive leaders at Fortune 500 Companies. With a background in strengths-based leadership development and applied positive psychology, she enjoys helping individuals and team realize and become their best. Leslie teaches on Business and Leadership at the University of California, Davis Continuing and Professional Education. She is a sought-after keynote speaker and leadership trainer, and a TEDx speaker with over 1.3 million views. Committed to enhancing her local community, Leslie and her husband, Joel, co-created and launched The Makers Place™ – the regions first coworking space with onsite childcare. She also currently works as the Director and Site Supervisor of Mini Makers™ Preschool. Leslie lives in Northern California and travels internationally for coaching, organizational trainings, and retreat facilitation. You can connect with her on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Pinterest, and YouTube or send her an email at [email protected] to learn how to partner together.