Hey Fellow Human,
If you keep getting exactly what you don’t want…
As in, you wonder why does this keep happening… to me?!
Then keep reading.
Because inside this blog post, I’m going to share with you the simple, but powerful techniques used to change your don’t want’s to want’s.
That helped me personally get what I want & when I want it…
Without feeling instant doubt. Without feeling like this won’t work. And without using anything that you are not already equipped with.
Before I discovered my secret, unconventional, formula to manifesting what I want, I was drowning in self-doubt about my confidence.
I knew I should be able to have whatever I wanted.
And that the Universe was abundant… and yet…
I felt so overwhelmed with self-doubt and anxiety.
I was terrified I’d fail, yet again.
And when I’d attempt to get into my manifesting mood,I could totally tell it wasn’t going to work.
The worst part about this voice of self-doubt is that it was like a hamster wheel spinning in my head; day-in & day-out.
Even when I was totally pumped & stoked…
I was terrified of falling on my face again.
So in my desperate attempt to manifest want I wanted…
I made extreme demands on myself that were completely irrational.
I’m talking demands like I will make $50,000 next week(as bedside nurse).
And I will love my job starting tomorrow(without actually doing anything to be it better)…
Then I would tell people what I was trying to manifest…
The truth is…
I was terrified that I wasn’t following the formula right.
Even though I knew that my heart was trying to tell me I wasn’t going to get what I wanted…
And that, if they took what I knew about science & spirituality, and used it step-by-step…
That I could have whatever I wanted…instead of being overwhelmed, anxious, and getting nowhere in my dream life.
I lacked confidence in myself to just do simple steps and not over complicate it.
So instead, I spent most of my time living in Groundhog Day.
Same ole techniques that got me nowhere…
Manifestation epic failure.
I re-tried over and over again to see if I could manifest a penny or pencil or even $1000…
But it was no use.
These techniques were supposed to work!
So sure, I could try over and over again and hope it’d appear…
But I’d need a miracle at this point.
Desperateto start manifesting with confidence…
I sought the advice of a neuroscientistwho was a friend of mine.
This genius would manifest money, vacations and even manifested his TEDx talk!
“Dude, I’m on the struggle bus to get out of my own head and heart & manifest like a friggin’ dreamer!” I told him. “I know I am stuck and my brain is on repeat- doubt, overwhelm, anxiety, doubt…”
“Ashleigh, are you just asking for it and not feeling it?” he asked.
“Well, yah bud…” I replied.
“What do you want to manifest?” he continued.
I told him… I want to manifest that I can manifest whatever I want.
“Ashleigh, I want you to think outside the box here for a minute… When you sit down to get into your head & heart, I want you to ask yourself a series of yes or no questions…
“Will I manifest what I want?” Yes.
“Do I doubt myself? Yes….
STOP right thereif you are getting negative results. After you’ve got a result you do not want… I want you to then ask yourself why…
Just go with it… why? Feel why, visualize why, and then forgive yourself…”
I wasn’t expecting this advice!!!
This made me go into a tailspin…
But with new ‘outside of the box’ thinking, I had to give it a whirl.
That night, I sat on my cozy couch…
I created my vision board…
And began to ask myself a series of yes or no questions…
And then I made a long list of all of the things I never followed through with, all of the things that I felt made me doubt myself, feel overwhelm or anxious…
It was a LONG list…
Finally, I asked myself the same series of questions after I forgave myself..
I felt FREE. Like a brick off my shoulders… my head was clear and my heart felt like it was glowing.
I was shocked…
I couldn’t believe that I was holding in so much sadness.
Thinking it was a fluke, I repeated this exercise all over again…
The response was utterly insane.
I could think clearer and feel confident when I asked myself the series of questions…
Almost every time I asked myself for forgiveness: felt it and visualized it…my confidence grew stronger and stronger.
And, I began to realize that I was the reason I was failing.
I realized that I had a formula that I needed to implement, like yesterday.
And that would be life-changing if I did.
So valuable, in fact, that paying me $5000 to transform into the person living the dream and not be the dreamer would seem like pennies if you gained that much happiness.
This formula flipped my mindset almost immediately.
Before I worried that $5,000 was too expensive… that I wasn’t worth it because (insert story you tell yourself).
Now, I could understand WHY I was failing…
It wasn’t my lack of desire… it was the lack of forgiveness I gave myself.
I was in a Groundhog Day pattern because my subconscious was stuck there.
So if you’re reading this, I want you to ask yourself the series of questions…
In fact, I want you to keep asking those questions to yourself…
Until you start feeling that same confidence and alignment inside that I did & do.
It doesn’t matter if you’re so stuck in overwhelm, feel anxious or doubt yourself…
If you’re wanting to transform…
Then give it a try and it will give you the confidence you need to change your life into the dream instead of the dreamer…
So, with that being said…
Inow want to give you a few tips on how to manifest whatever you want sothat you can feel confident with your personal results.
You see, one of the biggest misconceptions about manifestation is all you do is wish you had [insert wish].
Wishing is not enough…
Wishing and wishing harder is still not enough…
And visualizing, feeling, pretending to see your future…
But, with all parts… you are still forgetting the most important part.
Here’s why…
Remember when I said earlier that you have to forgive yourself to start manifesting?
I didn’t say feel…
I didn’t say visualize…
I didn’t say wish…
I said “forgive”.
So the real question you have to ask yourself is…
How long is your list going to be…to become the dream and not the dreamer.
Yes, how long?
Missing this important imperative chunk of knowledge cost my 25 years of being a manifestation failure.
I thought that, just because I was taking the time to make a vision board, see it every day, feel it, visualize it… that I would magically poof into the person I dreamt of being…
When in reality, I was missing the biggest piece of the transformation process.
Forgiveness was the key component I had been missing.
When I realized this, I quickly reeled my cyclical thoughts in…
I honed in on exactly what I wanted…
And I ONLY did the things that would get me there.
So, I want you to sit down and think about what you really want in life… a life without anxiety, overwhelm, & stress… what would your DREAM life be: how would you dress, what would you drive, what would you do as a living, what would your house look like and what type of people would be in your life?
What’s that ONE big outcome that would make you feel like I did when I realized that $5000 was pennies compared to happiness?
And then ask yourself 3 questions:
1. What would life feel like without anxiety, overwhelm & stress?
If you could go from where you are now to where you want to be…
What if you could have that by using my formula I created in REAL-TIME TRANSFORMATIVE RESPONSE Session…
2. What if you could feel confident in all of your decisions?
Recently, I helped a client in a session and, in less than 10 minutes, she discovered why she had such doubt, anxiety and overwhelm…
But, because I knew most of my clients are ‘Type A Controllers” and are most likely going to stuck on not being able to control…
I decided to create my REAL-TIME TRANSFORMATIVE RESPONSE specifically for Nurses aka ‘Type A Controllers’.
This formula though- made controlling the situation obsolete.
3. What would your dream life look like?
What would you make your life look…?
But also what would your life feel like… if the sky were the limit?
Like, what would your house look like, how much would you travel, what would you wear, what type of car would you have and what I think is most important…how would you feel?
With that being said…
I hope you’re now more confident about manifesting… there is a science behind it…
If you’d like to understand the science and deep-dive into spirituality…
You can always join myFB Group The Spiritual Nurse
Chat Soon,
Ashleigh Boyd R.N.
P.S. The manifestation of science is no secret… it’s how you understand it and apply it.