Last week, when I began to realize the enormity of what was happening to us, I started keeping a loosely attended-to journal to record my thoughts and observations. I wanted to not forget this time. The sharing of my journal can perhaps come later when this is behind us.

I have been capturing epiphanies. Today I had a special one.

I was taking my every-other-daily self-care walk and decided to veer a bit off the usual path around my apartment building. I have been adding more pieces to my outfit to comply with recent recommendations. Today I added a colorful cotton plaid scarf to wear as a bandana, not to serve as a mask (which we know is not protective), but to remind me not to touch my face. I haven’t used this scarf for years. It sits in a drawer with a bunch of other similar ones because it has sentimental value. I used to use them when hiking years ago.

As I marched along, dodging few other walkers (asking myself, why am I always the one to move off the sidewalk?), I realized I had lost my bandana! I was hoping to continue on my new route when I was faced with an unanticipated question. Should I retrace my steps to search for my bandana, or brush it off because I have more at home? I quickly remembered that I had observed several days before how important it is to conserve and preserve. Around I turned, and half a mile later I found it along the edge of the sidewalk! Very quickly this became a talisman of hope and redemption. I reclaimed something that had more meaning than I ever imagined. 

As I continued walking, I remembered that several days ago, while preparing a space for a workout area, I came across a brass plaque containing the eulogy I had written for my mother, years ago. The description of her washed warmly over me. I had just told my daughters that we should not be fearful; that we come from good Russian stock. Their grandmother came through Ellis Island with far more uncertainty, and look at where we are now. At that moment I knew we could all draw strength from her example, especially me as the matriarch of my family. I have photos of my children all over, for obvious reasons. This moment was different. I took the plaque and a framed photo of my mother and set it up on a shelf where I can see it every day. I added another framed photo of me and my dearest soulmate, Punam Mather, who works with me on all our good deeds. I decided that I was going to add my plaid scarf to the collection when it occurred to me — I am creating an altar. A place to worship precious things that will grow daily.

Throughout the ages people have relied on faith, whatever that may be, to carry them through. We create symbols and images to represent the hope that human beings have for meaningful, good lives. I am no different from the creators of hieroglyphics and cave drawings and Renaissance masters and Jean-Michel Basquiat. I am a human being reconnecting to my humanity.

The day that artificial intelligence can do that… is the day we have to fear. This virus is a wimp.


  • Elaine Wynn

    Business Leader, Crusader for Children, Philanthropist

    Elaine Wynn has established herself as a savvy business leader, an indomitable crusader for children’s welfare and an influential philanthropist. Elaine co-founded Wynn Resorts in 2000 and helped guide the company’s expansion from the opening of Wynn Las Vegas in April 2005 and Wynn Macau in September 2006 to the unveiling of Encore in December 2008. Previously, Elaine co-founded and led Mirage Resorts from 1976 to 2000.  Her pioneering contribution to the gaming and entertainment industry in America was recognized by her induction into the Gaming Hall of Fame in 1999. Just as her success in business is indicative of Elaine’s intellect, her humanitarianism is indicative of her heart. As a Trustee of the Elaine P. Wynn & Family Foundation, Elaine is personally and actively involved, with her family, in a variety of community organizations whose passions and priorities mirror her own.