So how do you overcome fear and worry? Right, this is something we all experience in different degrees occasionally. This is very easy to overcome once you understand the awareness.

In The Mind

In the mind. Let’s look at a simple view of time, right? You have the past. You have the present, which is now, and the future. This is a very simplified way of looking at time. Worry and fear only exist in the future. You cannot worry anything about anything

In the Past

in the past. It’s already happened, but you can be concerned or fearful of the consequences that may take place in the future fear and worry are future based on fear and worry is awareness of leaving the present moment and going into the future, creating a situation that has not happened coming back to the present and worrying about it.

A Short Story With A Lesson to Be Learned

I’ll tell you a story about a friend I know they share with me. He would always take himself out of the present, go into the future, and worry about his businesses and finances. He would worry about problems that had not even occurred yet. He ended up creating fears and worries, and those fears and worries affected his sleep, mood, and his overall health.

He learned over time through coaching to take himself out of the future and focus on the present. He would say to himself. I am in the present, and I am alright now. And that’s a beautiful affirmation to say every time you’re fearful or worried.

How To Overcome Worry and Fear

Say to yourself I am all right now, but to understand and overcome fear and worry, you have to understand awareness and the mind fear and worry are based on the fact that awareness is leaving the present moment and going into the future in your head, creating a situation that has not happened, coming back to the present and worrying about that or fearing that, so every time awareness goes into the future in an uncontrolled way and creates a situation in your mind right that is not wholesome.

Bring it back to the present and say I’m not going to let it do it, and that’s why you want to develop concentration and willpower right so you can keep awareness of what you’re doing.

It’s okay to let awareness go into the future as long as it goes into the future to think out things positively.

Author(s)

  • Award-Winning Podcast Host & 20x Bestselling Author

    Independent Media Creator & Writer

    Stacey Chillemi is an award-winning podcast host, 20-time bestselling author, epilepsy advocate, and founder of Advisor Global Media. She testified before the United States Congress on disability rights, co-authored with neurologist Dr. Orrin Devinsky, M.D., in Brain and Life Magazine — the official publication of the American Academy of Neurology — and served as an official spokesperson for Sunovion Pharmaceuticals and the Epilepsy Foundation.

    She hosts The Advisor with Stacey Chillemi, a podcast reaching more than 1.3 million listeners worldwide, ranked in the top 0.5% of podcasts globally and winner of the NYC Podcast Award for Best Host. She has appeared on ABC, NBC, CBS, and five times on The Dr. Oz Show. She began her career at NBC News working on Dateline, the Today Show and News 4 New York.

    Her twenty bestselling books include Epilepsy You Are Not Alone and the children's books My Mommy Has Epilepsy and My Daddy Has Epilepsy. My Daddy Has Epilepsy was selected as a Goodreads Book of the Month for July 2026.

    She believes you do not get to choose your cards. You only get to choose what you build with them.