“In your quest for whatever it is that you desire, always remember that it’s up to you. You get to choose everything about you and your life.

And you continually do. Consciously. And unconsciously. Actively. And inactively. By intent, or by default.

In truth, your unspoken, unwritten emotional energy is more powerfully and quickly choosing what you experience than your words are.

Thus, the misunderstood text, the verbal disagreement, the tangled phone conversation, the unresponsive email.

Add to that, each person’s embedded emotions, held from past experiences, immediately and easily triggered when someone’s words unknowingly push the button, pulling them to the surface —

— and the assumptions each has made about people and about life, based on those experiences.

Imagine the parallel “conversation” that occurs when the truth of your feelings and assumptions meet the feelings and assumptions of the other person — at the same time as the verbal or written conversation that you think you are having.

We are emotional beings, with innate high level intuition and vibrational sensory systems. Common throughout the animal, earth, and plant kingdom, these are systems all living things rely on — though mostly unconsciously — to communicate with the world, to get our needs met for sustaining life, for thriving, and for evolving. But humans have been trained out of using them, out of believing in them, out of trusting them. And in their place, we have put ultra complex layers of language, linguistics, and mechanical and technological communications, all filtered, all masking unexpressed emotion.

To the point that we barely trust our innate intuitive energetic communication abilities — and are sometimes even afraid of them. And we rely ever increasingly on designed, manipulated, acutely personalized, and covertly delivered written, spoken, and inanimately delivered versions of language.

The Result?

Self inflicted pain (unknowing, but all self inflicted). 

We can change our life experience. We can reconnect to our innate, nonverbal communication sensory system, our innate intuition.

And when we do, we feel it. In our gut. In our heart. We recognize and discern truth from deceit, healthy choices from unhealthy, joy from struggle. Our authentic voice inside each of us is waiting to be seen, heard, felt, and expressed, though at first we may feel vulnerable and awkward.

We can do it. We can make an agreement to listen, feel, and trust the true unspoken communication, the unwritten energy transmitting from each of us. 
We can bring to the surface what lies within. 
We can clear the emotional “clutter” blocking our intuitive sensory flow.

As above, so below.

Non verbal communication is our purest form of language.
It’s a choice. It’s up to You.”


Originally published at medium.com


  • Jan Edwards

    Inspired Self-Realization Life Guide; Ghostwriter; Access Consciousness Facilitator; Editor; Ordained Minister; Creativity Muse. Inspiredlifeguide.com


    https://linktr.ee/edwards.jan ‘Helping the True Gift of You Come Alive ~ In Your Being, In Your Work, and In Your World!’ A published Editor, Ghostwriter, Author, Intuitive Self-Realization Life Guide, and Access Consciousness Facilitator, and Ordained Minister, Jan has a passion to guide people to discover, experience and express their authentic essence. She invites them to live in their Inspired Flow Zone, their higher self, to design the life and work they long for. Combining intuition, mental acuity, heart connection, creativity, and industry experience, Jan cuts through the muck, to connect her clients to align with their inner resources, feel-good emotions, and innate signature energy. In having uncovered the most direct pathways to her own ‘coming alive’ and authentic signature life force, Jan is able to discern valuable intricacies sometimes hidden beneath the surface of her clients and their projects. She lives intuitively and attracts what she needs and wants by "following her feel-good and all that feels light." A conscious introvert-turned-entrepreneur, her 38 year career spans: Access Consciousness, Energy Healing; Hospitality; Wedding/Meeting/Event/Banquet Planning & Coordinating; Teaching & Tutoring; Writing/Editing; Nutritional Counseling; Thermography & Natural Health Marketing; Health Product Sales; Patient Education & Marketing; Chiropractic Consulting; and Ordained Ministry. Creations and Facilitations: Facilitator - Access Consciousness & Energy Bars; Creator/Guide - Inspired Life Guide; Creator/ Facilitator - FLOW Circles for Women; Host/Creator - Permission To Come ALIVE!; Founder/Past President - The Holistic Chamber of Commerce Orange County Chapter; Creator/Writer/Editor - The Gifted Ghostwriter; Creator/ Marketing Consultant/ Coordinator - One Source Wellness; Co-Creator/Host/ Writer/Promoter - Holistic Source Radio; Creator/ Facilitator/Promoter - Master of My Dreams Master Mind; Creator/Facilitator - Partners In Believing; Organizer - Santa Barbara Wise Women Over 40 Meetup; and Consultant/ Coordinator - People Growers of America.  Appearances: KUCI Radio; ‘Choices 4 Women’ Podcast; ‘What Is Your Holistic Lifestyle?’ Radio; ‘Free Your Spirit Tina Talk For Women’; ‘Business Marketing Made Simple’ Seminar; ‘Business Recovery is Self Discovery ~ You are Here to Blossom!’ Seminar; ‘Who Are You?’ Holistic Chamber of Commerce Seminar; ‘Being Authentic’ Holistic Chamber of Commerce Panel; ‘INspired To Change’ Nedalee Podcast; ‘HOLOS’ One Day Retreat; ‘Prosperity 2013’ Seminar; ‘Lyceum Live’ Talk; People Growers Corporate Marketing Workshop; ‘Master of My Dreams Holistic Master Mind’; Orange County Corporate Lunch Talks; and Top 12 Nominee in 2012 Collaborative Orange County Business Leader Awards. Publications & Mediums: Huffington Post; Washington Post; Thrive Global; Renew Magazine; Addiction Professional; Natural Society; Gatehouse Media; Medium.com; Living Fit OC; Books; Websites; Social Media sites; Holistic Source Radio; Business Branding; Bios; Elevator Pitches; Digital Marketing; Programs; Sales Scripts; Presentations; and Speeches Currently residing in San Clemente California, Jan is deepening her inspirational & intuitive work with individuals & groups and her current businesses: The Gifted Ghostwriter - Eagle Eye Editor and Inspired Life Guide. Her Traveling Ghostwriting and Editing services are available (California, Arizona, Utah, Oregon), and she is publishing her co-authored book "Inspired To Change" in 2021. Her newest inspirational ventures include leading Life Creation writing-visioning-energy shifting workshops and inspired transformation retreats. https://www.facebook.com/jan.edwards.5203 https://www.accessconsciousness.com/en/public-profiles/jan-edwards/ http://www.thegiftedghostwriter.com/h https//www.inspiredlifeguide.com/ Youtube 2 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC628TzKSDbaZQiNfICns5zw Youtube 1 https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC3Mm987oj1jBquSOiJtOsBg https://medium.com/@jan_edwards