photo from my dad, Al Wekelo

The sweetest, softest love is the one we have for ourselves

The courage to be ourselves

The compassion to be kind to ourselves

The vulnerability to speak our truth

The constant practice of letting go of the past

The constant reminder to live in the present moment of now

The patience it takes to allow and accept ourselves first

The patience to allow others

The unconditional love we strive to give ourselves

The unconditional love we share with others

The courage to live with an open heart, an open mind

The sweetest and softest space of LOVE for ourselves and others. 


  • Kerry Wekelo

    COO, Actualize Consulting

    KERRY WEKELO, MBA, is the Chief Operating Officer at Actualize Consulting, a financial services firm. Her book and program, Culture Infusion: 9 Principles for Creating and Maintaining a Thriving Organizational Culture and latest book Gratitude Infusion, are the impetus behind Actualize Consulting being named Top Company Culture by Entrepreneur Magazine, a Top Workplace by The Washington Post, FORTUNE Best Small & Medium Workplaces™, and Best and Brightest ELITE National Winner in Communication and Shared Vision category. In her leadership, Kerry blends her experiences as a consultant, executive coach, award-winning author, mindfulness expert, and entrepreneur. Kerry has been featured on ABC, NBC, NPR, The New York Times, Thrive Global, SHRM, Inc., and Forbes.