Having a crush is one of the most natural things in the world. It is an extremely giddy feeling, when everything about that person feels nice, you want to talk to that person the whole day, stay in their presence, and just watch them as they go around glowing in their perfection. But it is very tough to do so because having a crush makes us do stupid things, especially when we are in front of them. It turns us into a bumbling version of our normal selves, setting us up for failure and embarrassment.

This is why we are here to tell you how to talk to your crush and have a good conversation with them. These tips and questions will help you in making a good impression on them.

  1. Be Cool when Asking for Their Number

Many people think that the best way to ask your crush for their phone number is by using some other excuse. But you shouldn’t have to. However, you should wait while you are having a conversation to ask them for their number straight-up. This confidence will help you a lot in moving forward and also make you realize that your crush gave you their number just because you asked, not for any other reason.

  • Try to Text before Talking

The greatest advantage our generation has is the luxury of texting instead of calling. The reason texting is better is because you have more time to select your words and piece them together well whereas when you talk, one stumble can make you feel like an idiot. It won’t matter in the long scheme of things, but it will hurt your confidence. Just make sure you don’t have any typos in the texts and you are good to go.

  • Have Some Great Conversation Starters Ready?

You should always have some good and unconventional conversation starters ready to start a conversation or inject new life into a dying one. You can keep a list of questions to ask your crush. But just those questions won’t do. You should be able to hold a conversation well by yourself and most importantly have fun while doing so. it doesn’t matter if you have to make a little fun of yourself. Be confident in everything you say and do, and when you exude such confidence, anyone will like to talk to you.

  • What Are Some Good Questions?

A good question to ask your crush should not be too personal but should not be too generic either. You do not want them to feel you are prying into their lives but you shouldn’t make them feel like it’s just a question-answer game either. So here are some questions to ask your crush that we have prepared for you. Do have your own answers ready in case they ask you these questions back.

  1. What is one superpower that you would love to have for a day?
  2. Are you a mountain person or a beach person?
  3. What is something about you that will most likely surprise your parents?
  4. What is one thing that people consider quite normal but it creeps you out?
  5. If you wake up tomorrow as the opposite gender, what would be the first thing you’d try?
  6. What food instantly takes you back to your childhood?
  7. What is one restaurant that isn’t very popular but is a hidden gem?
  8. What kinds of movies do you like to watch?
  9. Which movie do you think is underrated?
  10. What is your most embarrassing childhood memory?
  11. What is something that you own that you are really proud of?
  12. What is the best birthday gift you have ever got?
  13. What is the cheesiest pickup line that somebody has used on you?
  14. What is the best pickup line that somebody has used on you?
  15. What is your idea of a perfect date?

As you can see, the questions can range from slightly personal questions about their life to what they like and don’t like. Asking such questions will help you to get to know them better. Make sure you continue a free-flowing conversation and don’t get awkward. The rest will take care of itself.

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