If you only watch one Say It Skillfully™ video, watch this one. It explains metaskills, which is your ability to make a conscious decision about what energy you project towards other people. 

When you lead a meeting, are you projecting impatience or warmth? If you must have a difficult conversation, are you projecting anger or openness?

Most people literally have no understanding what they are projecting. Like me. I once was completely unaware how others perceived me.

Master this skill, and you will utterly change the way you move through the world.

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  • Molly Tschang

    Coaching Senior Management Teams to Win As One

    Molly Tschang helps senior management build powerful chemistry to lead together and commit to each other’s success. She equips her clients' organizations with the practical skills to Win As One...which companies often never even try to do. Molly is the creator of “Say It Skillfully™,” a video series on LinkedIn and Thrive Global, and radio show that she hosts on the VoiceAmerica Business Channel to help people say what needs to be said. She is a member of Marshall Goldsmith’s 100 Coaches initiative and has held executive leadership positions at Cisco Systems and U.S. Filter, where she led the integration of over 80 acquisitions globally. Molly provides pro bono strategic advisory services to Community Solutions (homelessness) and Three Dot Dash® (youth mentoring) and regularly practices yoga, meditation and tennis.