Have you ever experienced heavy trauma or abuse, psychological or physical, in your childhood? Were you set up to fail in every possible way? Did you feel utterly alone in this world and prayed to God for help so you could survive and live the life like the rest, the life you want? Have you gone through so much pain that you often asked yourself whether it’s worth living…
YET YOU ARE STILL HERE, AND THROUGH ALL THE HEAVINESS, DIFFICULTY AND CHALLENGES, YOU FOUGHT LIKE A WARRIOR, YOU RELENTLESSLY LOOKED FOR ANSWERS AND SOLUTIONS THAT WOULD CATAPULT YOU WHERE YOU ACTUALLY WANT TO BE, TO CLAIM YOUR PLACE IN THE WORLD AND YOUR PURPOSE IN IT? YOU FOUGHT SO HARD THAT YOU ACTUALLY TURNED THE TIDE IN YOUR FAVOR — YOU FOUND YOUR PLACE, YOUR PURPOSE, YOUR VISION, YOUR SOULS’S REDEMPTION — AND IT IS NOW THE FOUNDATION AND THE SPIRIT OF YOUR BUSINESS AND ITS MISSION IN THE WORLD.
Nevertheless, you notice that from time to time you still need help processing some of the demons from the past that are showing up in your business as obstacles, challenges, fears, resistance, self-doubt and overwhelm, prohibiting you from feeling and being completely and utterly FREE. You have been a hero to make it this far and I commend you for your persistence and drive to never give up in reaching your own unique form of success. One in which you are free, happy and fulfilled.
So dearest, let me tell you, you can put your shield down now. You are safe and I hear you. Not only that, I feel you. I have been you, I have been in those desperate moments where no future seemed possible, and sadness and disappointment was all I felt. Even when I started my own coaching business, my demons reared their ugly head. For example, I kept pushing myself over my limits and experienced heavy burnout to the point of wanting to quit. I did everything I knew I could and I would still not make any money or have clients. I got helplessly angry when I would see other succeed and I couldnt, which reinforced all the bad thoughts about myself — that I am not good enough, that I don’t have the stamina to make it till the end, that no one wants what I am offering…
So I have full compassion for you and your journey and I also have good news — I am here to help. I understand your plight and what you have gone through, and I care more about your truth and happiness and finding the perfect container and speed with which to facilitate change for you, then imposing a one-size-fits-all system or structure of working to achieve your goals. When clients work with me, they feel redeemed, validated and finally FREE. And their natural positive disposition takes over, their amazing strengths and skills shine through and the doubt is finally gone.
Finding the right coach for yourself who can help you let go, release and transform the demons and blocks from the past into your unique form of power and even legacy, is one of the most important decisions you can make in your life, one that creates your strong foundation for personal as well as business success.
If you feel that my story resonates with you, and you would like to speak to me in person to see how, I as a coach, can help you on your business and personal journey, please book a discovery call. I so look forward to meeting you. http://bit.ly/2ahAdTp
Originally published at medium.com